by William S. Frank
Words like seeking, hunting, or searching imply that something is lost and hard to find. Even phrases like “I’m looking for a job” or “I’m unemployed” hide a bit of desperation.
Don’t ask yourself or others, “How or where can I find a job?” Instead, ask “What is the best and highest use of my talents, and who can I help the most?”
See, the process isn’t about finding something hidden. Whether you staff the loading dock or belong in the C-Suite, the method is the same. It’s about arriving at a place where you can make a big difference.
So tell yourself, “I’m really talented. I want to make a big difference.” And ask yourself, “Who needs help? Who is hurting?” Or as they say in sales, “Where’s the pain?”
You’re a talented person. You’re one-of-a-kind. There are many companies you could help, perhaps hundreds; and as a matter of fact, you only need one.
Next time, instead of saying “I’m in a job search looking for a Vice President of Finance position,” try something like this: “I love numbers and can see patterns in data that are invisible to almost everyone else. The numbers tell a story, and I can see it. I want to make the biggest difference possible to a non-profit in the early childhood education world. So I’m meeting people in the non-profit world to see where the excitement is.”
This language tells the story of being in the world ready to make a contribution. It communicates excitement and exuberance. And as William Blake said, “Exuberance is beauty.”
A burned-out CEO once hired me saying, “I want you to help me find my excitement.” The fun was gone, he was depressed and at a standstill. By exploring past likes and dislikes, and then applying the spark of imagination, we re-ignited his passions. He found his excitement, and was hired to be CEO for another global company.
Where’s your excitement?
That’s what you want to talk about in your day-to-day as you navigate a career transition, even a difficult one when you’re in a lot of pain.
Tell others where your heart is, what you love doing, what big successes you’ve had. Tell them how much you want to help.
A physician executive approached the market with a letter to friends and acquaintances that included this text:
As an executive career coach, I don’t say, “I’m looking for people who need career help.” Or I’m searching for a company that’s laying folks off.” Instead I say, “I just had a huge success with a VP of Human Resources who was laid off at the same time his wife lost her job. It was a complex problem, a national effort, and he landed a position that’s a 95-98% good fit. That’s what I love doing. I’m eager to do more of that.”
This same mindset will work for you. You’re a talented person. You’re one-of-a-kind. There are many companies you could help, perhaps hundreds; and as a matter of fact, you only need one.
Stop searching. Stop seeking. Stop hunting.
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